If you've ever looked at a ball gag and wondered what it's for - you're not alone. Ball gags are hugely popular within the BDSM scene but if you're outside of that world you might not know much about them.
Ball gags are loved by many for many reasons. Some folks love the feeling of being gagged, others find it helps them get into their preferred role as a submissive.
Ball gags combined with restraints and sensory deprivation like a blindfold or mask can heighten sexual pleasure by making the wearer feel helpless which could be their turn-on.
Feeling humiliated or like they're being punished or the feeling of being out of control (even though there's still control in a safe and healthy BDSM partnership and should be) can also be sexually exciting for the user.
Closed ball gags These are usually a ball with holes inside for air access. Ball gags are our most popular gags. You can get training systems if you think you need to work your way up.
Open mouth gags do just that. It keeps the wearer's mouth wide open for you to put treats in (as previously agreed!) Similar to open mouth gags are Claw Hook Mouth Spreaders which also hold the mouth wide open.
Bit gags or bar gags These gags are great if you don't want to try a ball. It's great for small mouths and can be worn comfortably for extended periods of time. You can of course also get bigger bars or even bones.
Gag and restraint combos and masks Many gags also have retraints or nipple clamps or masks attached so they're kind of a universal system. Great for the next stage on your BDSM journey to see what you like.
You can also buy dildo and knob gags and hood and butterfly gags. The sky is the limit really.
Discuss what you are comfortable with first - talk to your partner about what your turn-ons are, and what their turn-ons are too. Ensure everything you're doing is something you've discussed. Consent is vital. When you're wearing a gag it's obviously hard to speak so you need to work out a safe sound rather than a safe word. Put the gag on first and then make the noise so your partner can recognise it - do this before you begin any BDSM play. Or if you'd rather not make a noise you could use a tapping system - like tapping three times - or touching, picking up, or dropping an object.
Gagging can be dangerous due to the risk of asphyxia if your nose and mouth are blocked. Don't gag someone who is intoxicated, unwell or has allergies as most gags make it difficult to breathe. Vomiting and choking also pose a risk, never leave someone you have gagged alone.
Finally, have fun!
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