There are so many wonderful BDSM products, toys and accessories - it's hard to choose a favourite. Here's a list of some of the most popular toys in the bondage and fetish world.
A blindfold can increase sexual tension and arousal through the build-up of anticipation as you try to interpret what your partner is going to do next. Take turns blindfolding one another and treating each other to a variety of different sensations. Lick, tickle, suck, squeeze, and kiss each other in different places so that they will never know what is coming next. You will be amazed at how aroused you both become!
The feeling of being controlled or being in control can be a huge turn-on. Why not try wrist restraints? If you are new to restraints, then it's a good idea to start out at the tamer end of the spectrum. So, for now it's best to avoid ropes or metal handcuffs and stick to silk ties, scarfs or fabric restraints with Velcro.
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If the thought of spankers and whips frighten you then we recommend you start with a tickler first! Holding onto the stem, allow the soft tip of the tickler to gently caress your lovers skin all over. They'll experience head-to-toe tingles and be left with extra sensitive skin for subsequent play.
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Whips, paddles and spankers can be a heap of fun. Use a combination of barely-there touches and prolonged strokes, while paying attention to where they like it most. Of course if you do prefer to use spankers and whips remember that BDSM is a form of punishment that is meant to be pleasurable for both of you, so don't spank your lover too hard and make sure to pause between each spanking!
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With any kind of bondage play, communication is key. With such a high level of communication required, this may be why a lot of couples find BDSM more intimate then regular sex. Especially when restrained, you are completely at someone's mercy, so it is vital that you absolutely trust them.
Couples often employ a safe word in order to let their partner know when things get a little too uncomfortable. There is also the option of discussing beforehand both soft and hard limits so your partner knows what to do and what to stay away from. If you feel like you aren't able to trust your partner or have trouble communicating you will find it difficult to relax and completely enjoy.
A safe word is a code word commonly used in BDSM for a submissive to unambiguously communicate to a dominant that they are approaching or crossing a physical, emotional or moral boundary. These words tend to be irrelevant and strange in the context of a sexual situation as words like 'stop' or 'please' are too common within a role-play context. Safe words in BDSM fall under the guiding philosophy of safe, sane and consensual. In some cases, the choice to give up the use of safe words is a consensual act on the part of the submissive.
Browse our wide range of bondage accessories with your partner to mutually decide what toys you both feel comfortable using. Remember you both want to enjoy yourselves!